Of course, as I laid there with my two year old looking forward to cuddling another baby, I started to feel overwhelmed and a little sad. It’s going to be totally different with Punkin than it was with Munchkin. First of all, there’s Munchkin. I’ll have a almost two and a half year old running around, which I didn’t have last time. She’ll want to be fed and cuddled her self (she’s a HUGE cuddlebug.) Then last time DH wasn’t working and he was home a lot. This time he’s probably only taking a week off of work, plus he’s in school full time. So there will be days that he’s barely around. Thankfully that will only be for about a month but what a rough first month it could be! My mom will be around too, to help. I know she’ll be a huge help. I’m still a little worried that I won’t get a lot of snuggle time with Punkin but we’ll take it as it comes. I’m hoping to find little pockets of time to really be in the moment with Punkin. (I have no idea how to do this with two kids…any advice from those of you that have done this before?!?)
I think I’ll (try to) take the advice I was given when I had Munchkin and that I have since given to others: The dishes and laundry and cleaning will keep. You baby won’t! Snuggle that baby because they grow so fast. I’m hoping Munchkin won’t get too jealous and that I’ll be able to snuggle them both at the same time. Two arms for two little girls and a heart overflowing with love for both of them.